Sensual, Fetish or BDSM: What Kind of Session Interests you?

Mistress Viktoria Sway Cage

Mistress Viktoria is not your average Dominatrix. Her session interests range from sensual female led companion type engagements to more specialized fetish play to the heady trans-formative experience of full power exchange and BDSM. Know the difference when you are making your requests. Read below.

Do you know the difference between Fetish and BDSM Dominatrix sessions?  Design a perfect session to peek your interests.

Fetish Play-  one or two activities that really get you off, but in general you like to engage with your partner as an equal, with typical activities and conversation.

BDSM-    BDSM implies a power exchange and scenes generally fall into one of the four BDSM categories or is a combination of any of them. 

  1. Care
    1. Qualities: acceptance, bonding, self-esteem building, nurturing.
    2. Activities: role play, sensual massage/touch, sensual D/s, light service, light worship.
  2. Arousal
    1. Qualities: sexually charged
    2. Activities: body worship, tease and denial, joi, forced orgasm, prostate and strap on play
  3. Altered State
    1. Qualities: sub-space, endorphins, natural high, healing trauma, small, dirty, degraded, objectified, embarrassed, cherished.
    2. Activities: bondage, sensory deprivation, fear play, predicament play, mind fuck, Sissification, sensory play, long term distance relationship, humiliation, chastity.
  4. Submission
    1. Qualities: loss of control, useful, cherished, dominated, humiliated
    2. Activities: protocol training, slave training, domestic service, domestic scenes, consensual non-consent.

The key to a Dominatrix designing a good scene with a new partner is to know the category that the submissive falls into, at least 1-2 qualities that a submissive would like to FEEL emotionally during a session and 2-3 activities that a submissive enjoys.

You must be an advocate for yourself and your needs. Communicate respectfully and clearly with your partner outlining the qualities you crave and the activities that are impactful for you.  It is then the Dominants job to decide if they want to engage in such a scene.  If so, then the creative genius takes over and potential for masterpiece has been ignited.


Viktoria’s Way: Session Interests

Role Plays

Domina Viktoria is not a fan of heavily scripted role-plays, as she is best when given a guideline and creating within that. This is a list of role plays that she particularly enjoys… listed in no particular order. 

  • Seductive Sensual Mistress
  • Educator 
  • Coach
  • Relationship Counselor
  • Teacher & Student
  • Nurse/Doctor & Patient
  • Mistress & Slave
  • Manipulative Mistress 
  • Service Lady & Maid
  • Sadistic Siren
  • Boss & Employee 
  • Babysitter & Brat
  • Delivery Driver & Package
  • Alien and Abductee

BDSM activities and Fetishes

If it’s not on the list- you can ask respectfully, but the likely answer is no.

General Activities

  • Complete Power Exchange 
  • Sissification & Feminization
  • CFNM
  • Chastity 
  • Orgasm Control
  • Financial Domination 
  • Whore Training  
  • Forced Bi 
  • Queening 
  • Tease and Denial 
  • Humiliation and Degradation 
  • Public Play
  • Exhibitionism   
  • Voyeurism 
  • Sensual Sensory Play
  • Shoe/Boot/Hosiery Fetish
  • Dirt Foot Fetish
  • Scent Fetish
  • Objectification
  • Sensory Deprivation 
  • Blackmail
  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Domina Worship
  • Panty/Lingerie Worship
  • Bodywork 
  • Restraints and Bondage
  • Service Training 
  • Medical Play
  • Terror and Fear Play 
  • Cuckolding 
  • Breath Play  

Specific Activities

  • Violet Wand Play 
  • E-stim
  • Clamps/Nipple Torture 
  • Whips/Paddles/Floggers
  • Milking   
  • Impact Play 
  • Tickling
  • Foot/Leg/Butt Worship 
  • Stretching 
  • P-Massage
  • Plastic Wrap/ Mummification
  • Domina Worship
  • Panty/Lingerie Worship
  • Bodywork 
  • Restraints and Bondage
  • Service Training 
  • Medical Play
  • Terror and Fear Play 
  • Cuckolding 
  • Tease and Denial 
  • Breath Play  
  • Sensory Deprivation 
  • Shaving
  • Smothering
  • Golden Showers
  • Ball Busting/CBT
  • Enemas/Enema Training
  • Sounds
  • CBT
  • Edging
  • Choking
  • Forced Consumption
  • Strap-on