Session Interests

Fetish Play or BDSM?

Mistress Viktoria engages in both fetish play and BDSM. Know the difference when you are making your requests.

 

Fetish Play-  one or two activities that really get you off, but in general you like to engage with your partner as an equal, with typical activities and conversation.

BDSM-    scenes that falls into one of the four BDSM categories or is a combination of any of them.

  1. Care
    1. Qualities: acceptance, bonding, self-esteem building, nurturing.
    2. Activities: role play, sensual massage/touch, sensual D/s, light service, light worship.
  2. Arousal
    1. Qualities: sexually charged
    2. Activities: body worship, tease and denial, joi, forced orgasm, prostate and strap on play
  3. Altered State
    1. Qualities: sub-space, endorphins, natural high, healing trauma, small, dirty, degraded, objectified, embarrassed, cherished.
    2. Activities: bondage, sensory deprivation, fear play, predicament play, mind fuck, Sissification, sensory play, long term distance relationship, humiliation, chastity.
  4. Submission
    1. Qualities: loss of control, useful, cherished, dominated, humiliated
    2. Activities: protocol training, slave training, domestic service, domestic scenes, consensual non-consent.

The key to a Dominatrix designing a good scene with a new partner, is to know the category that the submissive falls into, at least 1-2 qualities that a submissive would like to FEEL emotionally during a session and 2-3 activities that a submissive enjoy.

You must be an advocate for yourself and your needs. Communicate respectfully and clearly with your partner outlining the qualities you crave and  the activities that are impactful for you.  It is then the Dominants job to decide if they want to engage in such a scene.  If so, then the creative genius takes over and  potential for masterpiece has  been ignited.

This is a list of BDSM activities and Fetishes, as well as roles that I enjoy. If it’s not on the list- you can ask respectfully, but the likely answer is no.

 

 

 
Impact Play Tickling Mistress & Slave
Complete Power Exchange Foot/Leg/Butt Worship Female Supremacy
Bondage Sissification and feminization CFNM
Chasity Financial Domination Nurse/Doctor & Patient
Whore Training Shoe/Boot/Hosiery Fetish Teacher & Student
Forced Bi Foot Boss & Employee
Stretching Bondage Relationship Counselor
P-Massage Panty/Lingerie Fetish Goddess & Worshipper
Queening Sensory Deprivation Domina & Submissive
Worship Spanking Manipulative Mistress
Bodywork Service Lady & Maid
Restraints and Bondage Sranwrap/mummification Sadistic Siren
Service Training Shaving Seductive Sensual Mistress
Medical Play Smothering Fetish Coach
Terror and Fear Play Golden Showers Educator
Ball Busting/CBT Cuckolding  
Tease and Denial Enemas  
Forced Consumption Breath Play  
Sensory Deprivation Violet Wand Play  
Spanking Blackmail Fetish  
Humiliation and Degradation Public Play  
Clamps/Nipple torture Exhibitionism  
Whips/Paddles/Floggers Voyeurism  
Forced Feminization  Sensual Sensory Play  
Electrical Play Milking