I’m so glad you put your pleasure in my hands.
Thank you so much for scheduling with me. Please take the time to read this letter and fill out the proper form for your session as it helps me prepare an experience tailored specifically to your tastes as well as instruct you on measures to keep u
In Preparation for Play
When filling out your form, please let me know if you have any special requests for Fetish Play, Clothing, Music, or whatever else….. I will do what I can to accommodate. Because of my height, buying things off the rack for me can be tricky… let me know what you would like and we can collaborate to create the look you want. If it isn’t something I have, I can send you a link to what will work for me and you can purchase it, send a gift card and I can purchase… have it delivered directly to me or bring it along.
If Toys Interest You:
After years in the Medical industry I am a stickler for health safety… I am recommending that you purchase your own toys that might be used in ways that would be exposed to fluids. For those of you that see me at my in-call location, I’m happy to keep anything that you purchase here in your own bin labeled with your handle. I will clean and disinfect toys after we use them and they will stay in your bin until the next time! I do have a collection of toys and some travel with me. I do what I can to disinfect and protect us all, but mine are used at your own risk.
As the time Arrives
I will send a confirmation message the day before your appointment, if I don’t hear from you I will assume you are not coming, will fill the time slot and report you as a time waster on the boards.
The e-mail will also contain the near location. Once you reach that spot, send me a message, I’ll verify you are there and we’ll get you in the rest of the way!
If you are going to be late please communicate that with me. My time at Sub Rosa is reserved and the space is shared with others so often I do not have flexibility with time. After 15 min. I will assume you are a no show and you will need to work out compensating me for my time. I typically have things scheduled around your session so I am not always able to be flexible with time.
48 hour cancellation policy- with 48 hours’ notice I can easily reschedule if something comes up. Any fees that I have incurred to rent space for your session will be lost.
Session fees should be placed on the table as you enter in plain sight. I do not negotiate or discuss rates or services at the appointment, if you bring it up you will have to leave immediately.
The part you have been waiting for…. You are in my hands now. Sit back, relax and enjoy.
Health, Safety and your happiness is a priority!
- I expect you to clearly communicate your needs to me as I will to you.• I expect you will follow the rules and guidelines I give you.
- I expect you to be sober and drug free.
- I expect you to be polite and respectful.
- I expect you to be clean and have excellent hygiene.
- I will verify your identity ~ this could take some time depending upon your references. I will provide you with assurances that you need within my abilities.
A bottle of champagne, wine or glass of spirit to share is acceptable for light sessions, however intoxication for heavy BDSM is never appropriate.
A few things I really dislike… To most of you this will seem obvious, it seems some of you need things spelled out:
- Do not try to dominate me. I know… I’m not a bitch… some of you switches might be tempted. Don’t do it.
- There is a shower available ~ I expect you to be very clean, please use it and the soap if you have worked up any kind of nervous sweat!
- Do not play rough with me. I don’t enjoy it.
- Do not spit on me. I have plenty of oils and lotions etc.
- Do not stick anything in my ass. I’m serious… no you can’t convince me I like it.
- No gum. I don’t want to see it, hear it, or smell it.
I’m sure this isn’t a complete list, but as they come up I’m adding them.
Fetish Play Safe Words: Hopefully never needed…
Green: I love it! (Mostly I can tell, so this isn’t needed unless you feel compelled)
Yellow: Getting close to my edge… proceed with caution
Red: STOP RIGHT NOW!
More or Less: If you feel like you want a change in pressure, pace or whatever feel free to give a little direction.
I’m so looking forward to making your fantasies come true.